People have Different Views on when to let go of your OPTIONS when dating..........When you are Dating someone, do you keep your OPTIONS open and date openly? Or should you Date exclusively One person at a Time?
Some Say if your not Married, then one should "NOT" date exclusively and keep options open. Even if you are getting serious with that Person and KEEP OPTIONS OPEN until Engagement happens.
But, then you Have those that Says>When Dating, keep it "Exclusive" with one person at a Time and if it does not work out then end it and wait for the next Option.Its Easy to say "We all can do whatever we want until A ring is Pull out of a pocket" But what is the transition for getting to that Level of Engagement if your dating Openly? What is the Best way to handle the dating game despite how much you Like that significant other???
WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?????
I believe that when dating, it is fair to keep your options open, as the person that you are dating may not be the 1 for you and 9 times out of 10 the person whom you date is not going to be a long term interest. Keep your options open and when both of you are ready to advance to the level of "Exclusive" then, at that time let the others go.
ReplyDeleteInteresting topic. I'm eager to see what people have to say. I think each situation is different, just as every couple is different.
ReplyDeleteI'm definitely down for keeping options open. I've been in several situations where I dated someone thinking that I was doing the right thing.by being exclusive and found out it wasn't mutual. They were still seeing other people. Don't put all of ur eggs in 1 basket until it is serious. I learned from my mistakes.
ReplyDeleteI believe it depends on the person fam. If a person knows how to handle multiple "options" and understands integrity having everything out in the open...no tricks...no lies...then yeah it could happen I guess. Good positions
ReplyDeleteI feel that you should not get serious with anyone you are not dating exclusively. if you decide to date exclusively then that is telling me that you are no longer keeping your options open and that you are going to give this person a chance. of course you should not start a new relationship with out ending the one you are in.
ReplyDeleteIf you want to date openly, that is fine, however be honest with the people you are seeing so that you can keep any confusion or misunderstandings to a minimum or not at all. "Drama Free" is the place to be.
Wendy Bates
Why get married, Anyway?
ReplyDeletePeople get married for lots of reasons, some good, others not so good. Many marriages fail because the couple does not understand either the purpose or the principles of successful marriage. Yes there are some marriages that are successful, I'm not telling you what I heard, I'm telling you what I know. Bad reason for not getting married.
1. Fear of hurting the other person
2. Fear of missing out on all the fun.
3. Fear of not getting enough sex
4. Fear of being with one partner.
Here are some healthy reasons for getting married.
1.Because it is God's will.
I God is calling yo to marry, He wants to join you to somoeone with whom you can build a strong, godly home filled with love and grace.
2. Expressing God's love to the other person.
3. Expressing personal love FOR the other person
4. To fulfill sexual needs and desires in a godly way. Sexual desire is God-given and, in its proper place, healthy and GOOD.
5. The desire to begin a family. To carry on your name.
6. Companionship. A husband should be his wife's best fried and companion, and a wife, her husband's.
7 To work together to fulfill each other's needs