How do you know its Real Love?

Your heart races every time he/she calls and your palms sweat whenever he's near. You think he/she may be "the one." But how do you know if this is the real thing?


I was Told That There are 3 Stages of Love before you are Actually in Love with that Person....hmmm Interesting huh?

1st stage is Infatuation>When you can't wait to be with the other person. This is the romantic stage of love.

2nd Stage is Bonding> During this stage you get to know the other person and you start planning aspects of your life around them. If you continue through this stage you eventually enter the third stage  

3rd stage is  Familiar> You've established a pattern that involves the other person. "Your lives become intertwined and merged.  (Discovery Health 2011)


My Question: How do you know its actually LOVE?? Is it when you tolerate their Ways?
Is it Love when you realize that you two been through so much that its now Love? What about Prayer? I can go on and on about examples on what determines Real Love....

Is Love a Embarrassing feeling?
Is Love Fair????
Is Love Handle carelessly?

VOICE YOUR THOUGHTS....... HOW DO YOU KNOW ITS Actually LOVE.................
                    

Is my Fire Leaving in My Relationship?

Well! Well!! Well!!  Here it is, after the Dating and Laughing, Smiling and Talking, Text, Joking, etc etc:A few months has passed and now you are at a Standstill with your Partner. You seemed to Run out of Options to keep each other happy like you did The first 3 months. What Do you Do??????
What are some Tools or advice you would give to keep a relationship Fire Burning?

Is it true that sometimes people tend to do TOO MUCH at the beginning of meeting someone where you have nothing more to give after a few months? is that even Possible? hmmmmm interesting to say, but some believe that couples should just "let if flow" vs "Taking your time " while in a relationship in the course of the journey.

There is HOPE!! Don't give up! There are so many different avenues you can take to keep interest in your relationship. For Example: GO ON PICNIC DATES or WRITE HIM/HER A LOVE LETTER LIKE YOU DID IN ELEMENTARY. Be creative. Sometimes Watching television shows can give you ideas as well. Why not Use CHIVALRY??? remember that Word?

My Question is this: Why Is it that We Become BORED and LOSE THE FIRE in a Relationship? especially after 6months to a Year?

What are some Ideas or Tools to keep the Fire Flaming? is it possible? Are We Doing too much to Soon? Is the Partner Losing interest, or is it just the fact We are out of Creative ideas to Keep the Relationship Exciting? YOUR THOUGHTS........................

Has Tuff Love made its Return? Chivalry not Appreciative Anymore??



OK, Can Someone Please explain to me How A Beautiful, Smart, Intelligent Well rounded Woman who complains about Being Hurt, and Complains about how the last relationship was bitter sweet? How A woman will say that She wants a Man who is Nice and treats her like a Queen, but at the same time she is turned on with TUFF LOVE???????

I know a lot of Men who testified about how being Tuff on a Lady brought more attention and Love from her, Versus being a Gentleman by giving her Respect, buying her gifts, flowers, shoes etc but All the Man will get is "Awwww that's nice, but you too soft for me"

So here is my question, Is Chivalry a turn off? is being Chivalry boring and too "Cheesy?" Why is it that a Guy with no Respect or not even opening a Door for his lady has a better chance of getting better respect from his companion? Is The "No care attitude" the New way to a Woman's Heart now?

In Conclusion SOME Men can Tell you that He has tried both ends of the STICK but came up short when trying to be a Pure Gentleman to His Companion. SOME Men have said that being a true GENTLEMAN has not been taken for granted...

Is Tuff "Thug" Love Back? Is Chivalry still Appreciative?   YOUR THOUGHTS

Dating with OPTIONS

People have Different Views on when to let go of your OPTIONS when dating..........

When you are Dating someone, do you keep your OPTIONS open and date openly? Or should you Date exclusively One person at a Time?

Some Say if your not Married, then one should "NOT" date exclusively and keep options open. Even if you are getting serious with that Person and KEEP OPTIONS OPEN until Engagement happens.

But, then you Have those that Says>When Dating, keep it "Exclusive" with one person at a Time and if it does not work out then end it and wait for the next Option.Its Easy to say "We all can do whatever we want until A ring is Pull out of a pocket" But what is the transition for getting to that Level of Engagement if your dating Openly? What is the Best way to handle the dating game despite how much you Like that significant other???

WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS?????

When a Child becomes a Deciding Factor

If your lover/fiance/ spouse tells you he/she will Not marry you unless you have a child with  them, what will you do????
what if your "other" goes to someone else to produce a child If you said NO?? who is at fault?
How far out will you Go to Please your Lover? HOW IMPORTANT IS A CHILD TO COME INTO YOUR LIFE ONLY TO KEEP PEACE or STABILITY IN a RELATIONSHIP???

Would u produce a child to please your "OTHER"?

What is Your Definition Of Love

Is Love A Action from a Person?
Is Love Something that makes you Act a Certain kind of way?
     What Is Love????????

Some May say Love Makes you do Embarrassing things because When it comes To Love Who Cares?
The depth of love can not be measured. Look at the relationship between a mother and a child. The mother loves the child unconditionally and it can not be measured at all. A different dimension can be attained between any relationships with the magic of love. Love can be created. You just need to focus on the goodness of the other person. If this can be done easily, then you can also love easily. And remember we all have some positive aspect in us, no matter how bad our deeds maybe.

Love is patient, love is kind. It has no envy, nor it boasts itself and it is never proud. Love rejoices over the evil and is the truth seeker. Love protects; preserves and hopes for the positive aspect of life. Always stand steadfast in love, not fall into it. It is like the dream of your matter of affection coming true.....

So I ASk you Again..... WHAT IS YOUR DEFINITION OF LOVE?????