Has Tuff Love made its Return? Chivalry not Appreciative Anymore??



OK, Can Someone Please explain to me How A Beautiful, Smart, Intelligent Well rounded Woman who complains about Being Hurt, and Complains about how the last relationship was bitter sweet? How A woman will say that She wants a Man who is Nice and treats her like a Queen, but at the same time she is turned on with TUFF LOVE???????

I know a lot of Men who testified about how being Tuff on a Lady brought more attention and Love from her, Versus being a Gentleman by giving her Respect, buying her gifts, flowers, shoes etc but All the Man will get is "Awwww that's nice, but you too soft for me"

So here is my question, Is Chivalry a turn off? is being Chivalry boring and too "Cheesy?" Why is it that a Guy with no Respect or not even opening a Door for his lady has a better chance of getting better respect from his companion? Is The "No care attitude" the New way to a Woman's Heart now?

In Conclusion SOME Men can Tell you that He has tried both ends of the STICK but came up short when trying to be a Pure Gentleman to His Companion. SOME Men have said that being a true GENTLEMAN has not been taken for granted...

Is Tuff "Thug" Love Back? Is Chivalry still Appreciative?   YOUR THOUGHTS