Your heart races every time he/she calls and your palms sweat whenever he's near. You think he/she may be "the one." But how do you know if this is the real thing?
I was Told That There are 3 Stages of Love before you are Actually in Love with that Person....hmmm Interesting huh?
1st stage is Infatuation>When you can't wait to be with the other person. This is the romantic stage of love.
2nd Stage is Bonding> During this stage you get to know the other person and you start planning aspects of your life around them. If you continue through this stage you eventually enter the third stage
3rd stage is Familiar> You've established a pattern that involves the other person. "Your lives become intertwined and merged. (Discovery Health 2011)
My Question: How do you know its actually LOVE?? Is it when you tolerate their Ways?
Is it Love when you realize that you two been through so much that its now Love? What about Prayer? I can go on and on about examples on what determines Real Love....
Is Love a Embarrassing feeling?
Is Love Fair????
Is Love Handle carelessly?
VOICE YOUR THOUGHTS....... HOW DO YOU KNOW ITS Actually LOVE.................
I think that love is a feeling of comfort with another person. By comfort I mean it is not fleeting, but more or less an emotion of certainty even though it is one of the most "irrational" sort of reactions we can have with another human being. Many people in love talk of just "knowing" and I think this is what I am trying to describe. On the other hand, love can become self-conscious and enraged if mishandled.
ReplyDeleteLove ishaving the capacity, ability and willingness to put someone else before yourself.....when you are willing to do those things with anyone, that's love...
ReplyDeleteMany ways it varies. Ex: When you are sitting on the bed with a white shirt on holding your head with a wrist watch on and don't know what time it is.
ReplyDeleteYou know you are in love when he is there for you through thick and thin..If you are going through something and no one understand you, but he does and he is willing to help you over come the situation..it is love...just saying
ReplyDeleteIMHO, I don't think love is necessarily just about putting other people ahead of yourself (someone can do that just because they have low self-worth and think other people deserve more than they do).
ReplyDeleteFor me, love is when you realize that losing that person can hurt you and you decide that you're still going all in anyway.
I also think love is when it hurts you to lose a person, but you're still willing to experience that hurt if you know it would help that person grow.
So, in a nutshell I guess what I'm saying is I think love comes the moment you are ready to put your pride and fear to the side and allow another person to access your heart's vulnerabilities.